How do you step from the top of a 100-foot pole?

Life is tough. Things happen that we don't expect. Things happen that changes our lives. We meet people who impact our lives in the most amazing or horrible ways. We see cruel things happen to others, we sympathize with the poor, the old, the sick.. We experience heartache, we experience happiness and at the end of the day we learn hard lessons from it.

Love unconditionally, no matter what

Life is amazing. We use different ways to cope, to vent, to love, to experience. During the journey we hurt people, we inspire people, we influence people and we leave a footprint, and at the end of the day we learn hard lessons from it too. 

Growing older is a miracle. Many of us experience the loss of a person we were close to, who influenced the way we sympathize and the way we handle obstacles. 

But at the end of the day when we are faced with the obstacle to step off a 100-foot pole, ask yourself why you are there in the first place? Did you climb up there knowing how to get back down? Is there a soft object that you can jump onto if you do decide to take that step? Before you started climbing that pole, did you think about what you would do when you got to the top? 

Things happen because they are suppose to happen. We don't ask for it, we don't expect it, we don't necessarily want it and don't want to accept it. But coming out of all experiences are life changing lessons. As long as we learn a lesson from every obstacle and realise that in the end, it's about loving unconditionally, it's about being happy with who you are first and then caring for other humans the way you care for yourself, then stepping from the top of a 100-foot pole will be fearless!